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Friday 26 December 2014

Things To Do in Last Week of December!!

So here we are in the very last week of the year 2014. A lot of us are on vacation spending their time at home with friends and family and may only resume their work/school in January. So I decided to pen down few fun things that all of us can do to spend this last week from Christmas to New Years Eve to the best of its capacity and enter 2015 with the truly awesome memories. Lets look at the 11 things we can all do during the holidays, Shall we?


  • Get cozy and watch a classic holiday movie.  
It’s A Wonderful Life, The Santa Claus, Miracle on 34th Street, Elf, The Holiday…you've got to watch one of these in this festive week. For serious movie buffs just create a queue for yourself and watch them all on the internet.

Watch them Now!
  • Drive around and look at Christmas lights.  
Perfect for a (free!) romantic date.  Enjoy how beautiful your neighborhood looks all lit up at night, and argue about whether white lights or colored bulbs are prettier.  For the record – colored lights totally win, if you ask me! 

Visit IC Colony or Bandra Lanes in Mumbai


  • Visit Santa at the mall.  
Yeah, all of the parents waiting with their toddlers will be glaring at you – but so what?  The pictures will be priceless, you’ll get to feel like a kid again, and you can make lots of awkward sexual jokes about sitting on Santa’s lap. *wink*

  • Do a Secret Santa exchange with friends.  
Grab a big group of friends, pick names out of a hat, and stick with a manageable price limit.  Depending on your friends, you could stick with gifts that are sweet and sentimental, or you could be a little wild – everybody buying silly, useless knick-knacks, or “adult” gifts like alcohol (if you’re 21) or condoms (stay safe!).

Secret Santa Rules

  • Go shopping – for yourself!  
Around the holiday season, our shopping lists can be out of control and money can be tight.  But make it a point to show yourself some love when you’re hitting the stores – girls can buy a fab outfit for New Year’s Eve and guys can go for swanky sweaters or jackets.  You don’t even have to splurge many malls/outlets have racks full of holiday glitz at insanely low prices.

  • Send cards to friends and family.  

Have a friend or a relative staying in a different city? Instead of calling them or texting them for the festive session, why not send them a card? Everyone loves holiday greetings, so spread the cheer!  Don’t feel like you have to buy cards from the store – make cards out of construction paper and post it across.   It’s much cheaper and more personal – and your friends and relatives will hang on to them forever! 

Holiday Cards

  • Channel your inner Cook.
Use your time at home to get more comfortable in the kitchen.  Offer to help make traditional holiday dinners – you’ll probably want to know how to make your favorites when you’re on your own. Try your hands at making holiday cakes, cookies, marzipans and not to forget those delicious rum chocolates. 
Marzipans

  • Give back to the community.  
The holidays are the best time to remember those who need our help.  Volunteer at the local church, give some change to those poor at the traffic signals, or buy some gifts for a family that can’t afford a Christmas.  You’ll be glad you did.  For local volunteer opportunities ask around at your old school or place of worship.

  • Have a dinner party with your friends.  
With all of the family events that come with the holiday season, it can be nice to enjoy a low-key dinner party with your friends.  Make it a potluck, show off that family recipe you mastered, and swap holiday stories with two (or twenty) of your closest friends.

Life without FRIENDS?
  • Go to the movies.  
Is it just me, or do the best movies of the year come out around the Christmas?  Spend an afternoon at your local movie theater and check out potential blockbusters with a huge bucket of popcorn and a slurpy can of icy Coke. 
  • Spend time with the people that you love.  
Help your dad put the lights on or just chat with your mom and look at the Christmas tree lit up in the dark. Spending quality time with your friends and family is really what makes the holiday season so magical, and you’ll make memories that you’ll cherish for the rest of your life.
Have a crazy family? We all do! 


Have you checked off any of these activities already?  Do you have any holiday traditions that you look forward to every year?  Tell me all about it in the comments section, and have a wonderful holiday season!





Monday 1 December 2014

Lease of Life – Condoms




As a style statement a large number of youth in India embrace various reckless behaviors. One with an alarming increase is smoking Tabaco. While Indian Government has increased the taxes impaired on Tabaco and Tabaco related products, which make them more expensive to acquire, the move has not helped in reducing the use of the same.

While youth is okay to spend a cool Rs100 on a packet of cigarette what makes me wonder is why is there an apprehension on spending a mere Rs25 on a packet of Condoms?
With 1.2 billion people, India’s barely a nation that can afford to be lax about contraception but according to the health ministry, condom usage has dropped by 38%. To find out what exactly is causing this decline we need to take a look at some of these factors.

1.       Scarcity and Lack of Awareness
With a huge population like India, it is difficult to educate the entire society about safe sex. Therefore a large section of rural India remains aloof from the whole idea of using a condom not just as an contraceptive but also to avoid major STI’s. Non availability of free condoms and lack of awareness is major reason that is causing the dip in its usage.

2.       Morality
In every society, people have their own moral, religious and ethnic doctrines that have not only reinforced their social fabrics but, due to prolonged observance in the community, also have pervaded the psychosocial environment of the individual. Obviously, an intervention (condom use) altering their age-old natural reproductive practices may be opposed or rejected by the individual or the community though people deeply feel the need of resolving socio-economic constraints associated with the explosive growth of the population.

3.       Religion
With a country like India where we have a large bouquet of religions, they tend to interfere and influence the sexual practices that we follow. Many religions prescribe the use of condom as against the law of the creator. As these religious beliefs are strongly embedded in our mental system all the other hazards of not using a protective barrier while have sexual intercourse is forgotten and perhaps ignored.

4.       Social Stigma
This again is associated with lack of awareness and care for one’s health. Men find it awkward to walk up to a pharmacy to ask for a packet of condom. The uneasy look that the man behind the counter gives scares the sh*t out of the guy who probably is doing it for the first time. Social discouragement given once to this youngster, he will never walk up to that pharmacy again.

5.       Partner Characteristics
In our country polygamy is not a widespread culture. Heterosexual couples restrict to just a few partners as compared to the couples in the west. Therefore the comfort level that develops between the participating individuals that the need to use the protection dies eventually. Having blind trust on your partner can push someone down the hill inching towards any dangerous STI. Although with homosexual couples polygamy is rampant. Trust or no trust using a condom should be imperative.

6.       Personal Factors
Individual perception, notion and constraint is likely to influence condom use. Many youngsters report that non-use of a condom because they did not think either they or their partner had an infection, and a similar proportion did not use a condom because they applied other contraceptive measures. ‘I do not have the AIDS virus’ and ‘I thought I was safe’, apparently indicating their low perceived susceptibility behind avoidance of condom use. Thus, individual perception of risk or pleasure often affects condom use.

7.       Condom – As contraceptive
Many couples just consider condom as a contraceptive. Pregnancy is considered to be the only outcome of having sexual intercourse. So they refrain from using a condom as they find many other ways to avoid a possible chance of pregnancy. They forget that many other STI’s including HIV and AIDS can be avoided by using a condom.

8.       Psychological Factors
Severe depressive symptoms affecting adolescent males are significantly predictive in non-usage of condoms. Social anxiety among gay and bisexual youths is found to be associated with unprotected anal intercourse. A depressed mood, female gender and unemployment increased the likelihood of engaging in unprotected sex among young people.

9.       Substance Abuse
Acute alcohol consumption by college students significantly predicted their perceived likelihood that they would have sexual intercourse without a condom. A feeling of emotional closeness has often been reported to be associated with the consumption of the drug Ecstasy (methylene-dioxy-methamphetamine; MDMA); some have also mentioned an increased sexual arousal and some, in particular gay and bisexual men, have used MDMA specifically for sexual enhancement. The sexual risk taking behavior –having multiple sexual partners and engaging in sex without a condom- was prevalent among persons having sex during MDMA episode.

1.      Issues with Condom use
Many couples stay away from condom because of the discomfort they experience while using them. Lack of sensation, vaginal irritation, and condom slippage are some excuses. Finding the right condom for some people has been very difficult even when condom manufacturers have introduced many variants like flavors, dots and lubrications.


While there can be no reason to take risk with your own life, using a simple condom can just give you another lease of life.


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